I’m not sure where it happened but somewhere along the line a popular line of thinking became that self-love was selfish. If you were loving and taking care of yourself that you were neglecting someone or something else and that was selfish? I’m not sure where that came from but know it’s a very common thought that I find gets brought up and I find it becomes even more extreme among empaths.
You are not selfish if you take time for yourself.
You are not selfish if you make time to do the things that rejuvenate yourself.
There is nothing selfish about needing to take a bit of time for yourself to take a walk, have a bubble bath or anything else you may desire.
You are not only entitled to but expected to do things that will help you to grow in your life.
You are expected to spoil yourself and frequently allow yourself treats or other things that make you happy in life.
You are allowed to take extra time to just appreciate the beauty in life or the arts simply because you want to.
You are allowed to take the time to work with magick and explore the energy that surrounds you.
If you have any thoughts in your head about why you shouldn’t spend time on yourself I want you to dismiss them immediately. Think about what would truly make you happy today and then I want you to give yourself the gift of self-love. Spend some quality time doing the things that you love.
When you take the time to love yourself you become more grounded, more confident, happier and you will find that the energy that you have radiates to others. Your energy will be magickal if you allow it to be. Your efforts will actually allow you to help more people as you are taking that time for yourself. Take that time for yourself. Work with your energy. Be magickal.
I hope you have a Very Happy Valentine’s Day! :)))
Have a magickal day!
Much Love and Many Blessings,