One of the biggest lessons I learned in life and have worked with through the years is forgiveness. It’s such a huge part of being able to walk our path with love and light. I’m not going to tell you it’s easy as it’s not. You need to forgive all those who have generated negative energy with you in the past and in the present, as it creates negative psychic cords to you and these cords can wear you down. You don’t want that sort of energy bogging you down. So make a conscious effort to start forgiving those who have wronged you in the past and cutting those cords.
You can ask your guides to help you cut any cords that were attached to you because of negative energy. For you see, when you allow someone to have a place with negative energy in your heart you allow them to remain with you. It creates a cord of energy actually linking you to that person. This cord can keep us linked to the other person. It can cause things such as fatigue, depression, and not being able to get them out of your mind. Ever had a relationship end and you can’t seem to get them out of your life, even though they are no longer there? This is when you need to cut that psychic cord.
That being said, part of the healing process for ourselves is learning to not carry that energy and cut those cords. In order to do this, you need to forgive them for what they’ve done so that you can remove them from your life, or at least remove their negative event from your life. I know that it can be really tough with some experiences but the more you do it the easier it will become. Once you have forgiven them you need to do the second step and cut that cord.
I also want to bring attention to the fact that not all cords are negative. These psychic cords also help to keep loving bonds between family members, friends, and relationships. They are what can help us to know how the other person feels, keep that strong connection between you even when you aren’t together, and help keep the flow of positive energy between the two of you. I also want to add that for a true empath this process is even more important. We will feel these psychic cords all the time as we are very sensitive to the energies of the emotions of others. This is how being an empath you will know if your friend is depressed, happy or angry 3,000 miles away without even talking to them.
Cord-cutting doesn’t mean you have to sever all ties with that person. For instance, say you got in an argument with a friend. You can cut the cord with that friend. If you don’t want to release the entire relationship just ask your guides to cut any negative cords to that person. That will allow you to maintain a relationship with them if that’s what you wish, and to keep those positive psychic cords, but not carry around any negativity from the relationship.
Now here’s where forgiveness comes back into play. You need to make sure that you have forgiven yourself for any situation as well. We can cut the cord of negativity for someone but if we are still holding ourselves partially responsible for what happened, then it won’t do any good. This brings me to the second part of forgiveness. One of the most important parts of forgiveness is learning to forgive yourself. Ok, you’re probably looking at me going huh? Yes, forgive yourself for anything that you may have done in your life that you aren’t proud of. Forgive yourself for any part you may have played in any disagreements. Realize that none of us are perfect. If we were there would be no point in us being here to learn. We have all done silly things and made mistakes. We’ve all hurt someone either intentionally or unintentionally.
Forgive YOU. Realize that you are perfect just the way you are. Forgive yourself so that you can learn to fully truly love yourself and who you are as that is so important to living a happy peaceful life. When you are happy, that happiness will radiate out and you will be amazed and the difference in you and everyone around you.
You are loved <3 Always remember that.
Have a magickal day!
Much Love and Many Blessings,
Jasmeine Moonsong
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